Sasquatch wrote:Pepi wrote:Yep ... Only because I let it stress me

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As mentioned, stress comes from the inside not the outside. I used to be very stressed but have made some lifestyle adjustments that have greatly reduced stress. Life is too short to make it shorter by stressing.
A friend once told me that he doesn't believe in depression / stress being caused by outside sources. "I might have woken up depressed today. I might have been stressed at work. But if I win the goddamn lottery on the way home, you can bet your ass I show up tomorrow and take whatever the day throws at me with a huge fuckin grin on my face."
I work in retail management. VERY demanding and it's hard to keep customers AND employees happy while still being fun/energetic AND maintaining a somewhat professional persona. I get respect at my workplace because I earn it. By knowing how to handle any situation, by being fair and assertive with staff and clientele, and by being flexible as all hell. I work hard for them, and they see that. This respect enables me joke around and be friends with the staff. Goof off once in a while, ya know?
Still stresses me out to no end. I delegate, I roll up my sleeves and get into the dirty work, I explain my expectations and give the staff a roadmap to get there... so when things get done wrong, don't get done, or get done correctly in a horribly inefficient way, I get stressed. The last couple managers we've had were very lazy. If you can't count on the ultimate authority figure of the store (who works 48 hours a week) to get things done, who can you count on?
That being said, if I was getting paid another 2-3 bucks an hour.... i'd be a lot less stressed out. I'd be fine dealing with customers and staff and tasks and projects. I could come home and leave all that shit at work. So I guess maybe that means i'm doing it to myself?
"You forget, this is HCAF, where everyone thinks like Stephen Hawking, fights like Manny Pacquiao, pulls trim like Justin Timberlake, and emotes like The Terminator...as long as it's someone else's dog who died" -Benjamin801
Droppin similes like i got holes in my pants pockets.