I HATE being accused of things I didn't do, even if it would appear that I had.
My parents used trust a lot in discipline..........I'd get in trouble, and I had to earn their trust again...."from scratch".
It felt rather unjust at the time....but it's made me a very honest good person.
Wife and I haven't said we wouldn't have kids exactly, but neither of us feel good about having any yet.
It seems so pointless sometimes. Have a kid that you ship off to daycare for 40+ hours a week....doesn't make sense to me. Costs a fortune too.

I personally love kids......I wish I had taken a path that allows me to work with children. oh well. I grew up with very young brothers....so my tolerance to children is massive, and I know how to take care of them and deal with them.
My wife isn't as good with kids......

I can see how our discipline methods differ already with our dogs. I could easily see her being the "you just wait until your dad gets home" mom (she grew up like that).
I'm more of the strict, "I have an expectation that needs to be met or you will be punished instantly" dad (I grew up like that).
Scares me to think our relatively happy marriage could be ruined by us butting heads or not feeling like support over that shit.