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Re: Requesting prayers and mojo for my dad :sad:

Posted: Tue Dec 29, 2020 11:30 am
by RyanDistortion
Mojo sent. Good luck, Steve. This certainly sucks.

Re: Requesting prayers and mojo for my dad :sad:

Posted: Sat Jan 02, 2021 2:24 pm
by Tortuga
Thanks Ryan, Mike, and everyone else!


Things have been getting progressively worse with his symptoms, but we were able to get in to see a doctor this week, which was a miracle - and all thanks to a very good friend from church who happens to be married to a neurologist. We really like the doctor, and he did a great job of explaining what is probably going on (they're thinking there's 3 possibilities) and what we may be in for. The great thing is that they were able to do a lot of heavy lifting quickly to get more diagnostics scheduled so that they can do a targeted biopsy next week. He told us that there is a medication they can give him that will likely make the symptoms subside, but we can't give it to him yet because it would interfere with the results from the biopsy. So, we have about 6 days to go with his condition worsening. He's fallen twice now, and is having a lot of trouble moving around and his talking has vastly subsided. We're concerned that he's becoming depressed.

Meanwhile, I'm having to hack through all the shit he's automated in the house (lights, etc.), his automated bill payments, and his many other online accounts. Also taking time to fix things around the hosue he hadn't gotten around to - anything to make things easier on my mom.

Greg and Mike (Itchy and Ruboto) got me to meet them in a jam room and gave me the best 20 minutes I've had in a long time. And while no homo action occurred, I got to play some seriously cool TGP-level vintage gear and jam a bit with Mike, which was so much fun. Those guys and so many on this board are such great friends. This place is a true blessing.

Re: Requesting prayers and mojo for my dad :sad:

Posted: Sat Jan 02, 2021 2:35 pm
by JiveTurkey
Oh man. Glad to hear you got some doctor time to help sort some things out. And also glad to hear you got some "me time" in a jam room with the hommies. Tough situation and my thoughts are with your family Grimes :heart:

Re: Requesting prayers and mojo for my dad :sad:

Posted: Sat Jan 02, 2021 6:36 pm
by Mike Oxhuge
Thoughts and prayers to you. Stay strong.

Re: Requesting prayers and mojo for my dad :sad:

Posted: Sun Jan 03, 2021 12:42 am
by Ostinato Rubato
50’s tweed Fenders will always steal the show. It was great to see you again Boomspizzle!

Been sending you prayers and wishing the best for you and your family.

Re: Requesting prayers and mojo for my dad :sad:

Posted: Sun Jan 03, 2021 11:10 am
by Tortuga
Ostinato Rubato wrote:50’s tweed Fenders will always steal the show. It was great to see you again Boomspizzle!

Been sending you prayers and wishing the best for you and your family.

:heart:

I had another very good friend of mine (who I've known since the early 70s) come over yesterday afternoon. We had a few beers out at the curb, talked, laughed, told stories, and generally helped my stress level. Was a good afternoon.

Unfortunately, however, my dad started declining rapidly almost as soon as I got back in the house. By 7:00, he wasn't able to walk/move, chew his food, etc. When we could see his right arm had lost all of it's strength, we called 911 and got the paramedics out here. They were concerned about it being a stroke, and took him to the hospital, where they confirmed the diagnosis. Covid wouldn't let either my mom or me in to be with him, so we wait.

Re: Requesting prayers and mojo for my dad :sad:

Posted: Sun Jan 03, 2021 11:19 am
by BroSlinger
Oh no, man. I’m sorry to hear this. Stay strong.

Re: Requesting prayers and mojo for my dad :sad:

Posted: Sun Jan 03, 2021 12:10 pm
by itchyfingers
Boomer wrote:
Ostinato Rubato wrote:50’s tweed Fenders will always steal the show. It was great to see you again Boomspizzle!

Been sending you prayers and wishing the best for you and your family.

:heart:

I had another very good friend of mine (who I've known since the early 70s) come over yesterday afternoon. We had a few beers out at the curb, talked, laughed, told stories, and generally helped my stress level. Was a good afternoon.

Unfortunately, however, my dad started declining rapidly almost as soon as I got back in the house. By 7:00, he wasn't able to walk/move, chew his food, etc. When we could see his right arm had lost all of it's strength, we called 911 and got the paramedics out here. They were concerned about it being a stroke, and took him to the hospital, where they confirmed the diagnosis. Covid wouldn't let either my mom or me in to be with him, so we wait.

Aw man, I am so sorry to hear this, Steve. Keeping you guys in my thoughts. :heartbr:

Re: Requesting prayers and mojo for my dad :sad:

Posted: Sun Jan 03, 2021 1:44 pm
by Yarbicus
So sorry. Praying for you and your family.

Re: Requesting prayers and mojo for my dad :sad:

Posted: Mon Jan 04, 2021 6:15 am
by skybluegary
Best of luck dude.

Re: Requesting prayers and mojo for my dad :sad:

Posted: Mon Jan 04, 2021 12:59 pm
by greatmutah
So sorry to hear this man. Prayers and mojo sent.

Re: Requesting prayers and mojo for my dad :sad:

Posted: Mon Jan 04, 2021 1:05 pm
by ajaxlepinski
Man, I'm really sorry to hear this. More prayers and mojo from the East Coast arriving soon!

Re: Requesting prayers and mojo for my dad :sad:

Posted: Mon Jan 04, 2021 7:56 pm
by Beef
So sorry to hear, sending good vibes for you and your family.

Re: Requesting prayers and mojo for my dad :sad:

Posted: Mon Jan 04, 2021 8:27 pm
by GuitarBilly
Sorry to hear this brother. I'm keeping your dad in my thoughts.

Re: Requesting prayers and mojo for my dad :sad:

Posted: Mon Jan 04, 2021 10:10 pm
by overdrivenel34s
Sorry to hear. Mojo sent

Re: Requesting prayers and mojo for my dad :sad:

Posted: Sat Jan 09, 2021 1:12 pm
by Tortuga
We got the call from the oncologist last night. The final report from the biopsy they did shows that nothing can be done because the type and severity of the cancer is so bad that they can't do anything to prolong or improve his quality of life. We'll be working with the hospital and hospice to get him discharged and brought home over the next day or two.

:cry:

Re: Requesting prayers and mojo for my dad :sad:

Posted: Sat Jan 09, 2021 1:19 pm
by JiveTurkey
Dammit. So sorry Grimes :cry: Mojo and :heart: sent in your family's direction.

Re: Requesting prayers and mojo for my dad :sad:

Posted: Sat Jan 09, 2021 1:27 pm
by itchyfingers
My heart has been breaking for you guys all morning. I'm here for you bud.

Re: Requesting prayers and mojo for my dad :sad:

Posted: Sat Jan 09, 2021 1:31 pm
by Yarbicus
Damn, man. So sorry. More prayers for you.

Re: Requesting prayers and mojo for my dad :sad:

Posted: Sat Jan 09, 2021 1:39 pm
by Beef
So sorry to hear. Hope his time home is as painless and comforting as possible for you all.

Re: Requesting prayers and mojo for my dad :sad:

Posted: Sat Jan 09, 2021 10:18 pm
by Steinmetzify
Really sorry to hear this man....we're all here for you.

Re: Requesting prayers and mojo for my dad :sad:

Posted: Sat Jan 09, 2021 10:49 pm
by BroSlinger
I’m sorry, man. Let me know if you need to talk. I went through the same thing with my mom. You’re in my prayers.

Re: Requesting prayers and mojo for my dad :sad:

Posted: Sat Jan 09, 2021 10:53 pm
by ajaxlepinski
So sorry for you, your dad and your family. Praying for all of you.

Re: Requesting prayers and mojo for my dad :sad:

Posted: Sun Jan 10, 2021 8:46 am
by skybluegary
Mojo and best wishes for you and your family.

Re: Requesting prayers and mojo for my dad :sad:

Posted: Sun Jan 10, 2021 1:27 pm
by mortatone
Much peace to you and your family. I’m thinking about y’all.