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Re: Coronavirus - WTH is going on?
Posted: Mon Apr 27, 2020 12:23 pm
by clipless bumper
MikeO wrote:clipless bumper wrote:I think the truth is starting to come around. Those states that are 'opening early' will tell us the reality.
Are you inferring that someone is lying? Who? And what exactly are they lying about?
Not politicizing it here - I guess we will just have to wait and see how this shakes out and how history sees it (if we can trust it)
Re: Coronavirus - WTH is going on?
Posted: Mon Apr 27, 2020 12:33 pm
by Marc G
MikeO wrote:clipless bumper wrote:I think the truth is starting to come around. Those states that are 'opening early' will tell us the reality.
Are you inferring that someone is lying? Who? And what exactly are they lying about?
I don't think anyone is lying per se but there is so much that's not known and some people want to be cautious, some overly cautious, others want to be more relaxed and some what to believe that this shouldn't stop people from doing things like normal.... all... for the most parts have some valid points, some have more than others lol.... but mostly I think some people want to see results rather than get advice from someone they don't necessarily trust, be that a Gov't official or a medical organisation.
Re: Coronavirus - WTH is going on?
Posted: Mon Apr 27, 2020 12:40 pm
by ajaxlepinski
Re: Coronavirus - WTH is going on?
Posted: Mon Apr 27, 2020 12:47 pm
by TurboPablo
Derp.
Re: Coronavirus - WTH is going on?
Posted: Mon Apr 27, 2020 12:58 pm
by clipless bumper
Damnit - now I have to get an AR-15........
Re: Coronavirus - WTH is going on?
Posted: Mon Apr 27, 2020 1:09 pm
by Diddlybo
This morning I was reading some Covid stats from around the world. Tokyo claims to have only 100 Covid deaths. For such a densely populated area, that seems very low.
My first reaction is to think they might be grossly underestimating their numbers. I don't know, just an observation.
Re: Coronavirus - WTH is going on?
Posted: Mon Apr 27, 2020 1:12 pm
by ***1776***
Wait Sleewell was banned for the week?
There is not a 'perfect time' to re open things you cannot make society 100% bubblewrap safe proof, you just cant. You can take some new measures and be smart and proactive but you cannot make anything foolproof, some people will contract this virus and you may see a small spike in numbers but it has to be done sooner than later, the general populations mental health, etc and of course business and people need to get the wheel rolling
It sounds like most of this board is doing well and thats a good thing and u agree those yahoos with the guns dont help their "cause" when they show up looking like that
Re: Coronavirus - WTH is going on?
Posted: Mon Apr 27, 2020 1:49 pm
by TraumaRN
***1776*** wrote:Wait Sleewell was banned for the week?
There is not a 'perfect time' to re open things you cannot make society 100% bubblewrap safe proof, you just cant. You can take some new measures and be smart and proactive but you cannot make anything foolproof, some people will contract this virus and you may see a small spike in numbers but it has to be done sooner than later, the general populations mental health, etc and of course business and people need to get the wheel rolling
It sounds like most of this board is doing well and thats a good thing and u agree those yahoos with the guns dont help their "cause" when they show up looking like that
Agree, but Health statistics, Physician input should make that decision-- not some fool Politicians bidding for reelection and posturing under Business pressure.
Re: Coronavirus - WTH is going on?
Posted: Mon Apr 27, 2020 1:51 pm
by GuitarBilly
***1776*** wrote:Wait Sleewell was banned for the week?
Weekend.
Re: Coronavirus - WTH is going on?
Posted: Mon Apr 27, 2020 2:08 pm
by skybluegary
Zozobra wrote:My mental health is taking a kicking. I've been battling chronic insomnia for decades and I had finally started to beat it using a very aggressive CBT programme. That has gone to shit and relapsing into not sleeping is seriously fucking my mood and outlook. I'm working from home so I still have some structure but a few weeks ago I had 6 days off over Easter weekend as it was a double bank holiday and work gave us an extra day each side of that too. I think those structureless 6 days are what fucked me. My gf lives with me and has been off work since before we went in to lockdown. The toll that's having on her is proving stressful on our relationship and between my low mood and her agitation things suck quite hard right now. I would definitely have have reacted worse to so little structure than she has to be fair to her so I know where she is coming from. It's hard to be reassuring when you have nothing in the tank. You can't pour from an empty cup. I wish I had the resilience and emotional labor in me but right now I don't. All in all it's a total clusterfuck.
Dude, hang in there. I guess you have a far better understanding of how to deal with your situation than I possibly could, but do you have a support network to help you through this? all the best mate.
Re: Coronavirus - WTH is going on?
Posted: Tue Apr 28, 2020 2:37 am
by GuitarBilly
Zozobra wrote:My mental health is taking a kicking. I've been battling chronic insomnia for decades and I had finally started to beat it using a very aggressive CBT programme. That has gone to shit and relapsing into not sleeping is seriously fucking my mood and outlook. I'm working from home so I still have some structure but a few weeks ago I had 6 days off over Easter weekend as it was a double bank holiday and work gave us an extra day each side of that too. I think those structureless 6 days are what fucked me. My gf lives with me and has been off work since before we went in to lockdown. The toll that's having on her is proving stressful on our relationship and between my low mood and her agitation things suck quite hard right now. I would definitely have have reacted worse to so little structure than she has to be fair to her so I know where she is coming from. It's hard to be reassuring when you have nothing in the tank. You can't pour from an empty cup. I wish I had the resilience and emotional labor in me but right now I don't. All in all it's a total clusterfuck.
damn man. Mojo sent.
. Try to find professional counseling/help. There might be therapy etc that's being offered remotely.
And if you need a place to vent and talk to others, feel free to do it here. Hang in there man.
Re: Coronavirus - WTH is going on?
Posted: Tue Apr 28, 2020 4:00 am
by VTM
K-Bizzle wrote:How is everyone’s mental health doing?
Mine certainly has taken a hit. The gym, BJJ, and band practice and gigs are usually where I relieve all my stress.
Playing at home solo or doing home workouts just doesn’t have a the same effect.
I’m finding myself drinking too much, smoking weed more often, and eating trash more often than not. All of which make me feel better at the time but worse overall.
I’ve been trying to cut myself some slack but honestly the existential dread of thinking about the future of the economy is weighing on me heavily and I’m not sure what to do with it.
That said I find myself grateful for my position in life. We’re both employed bills are paid, fridge is stocked, and we’ve got some savings to fall back on if needed.
I often find myself thinking of people not so fortunate during this time.
With the old broad working as a certified nursing assistant and me in social services/healthcare we're not spending any time together, aside from short visits in the driveway. I've certainly dealt with more difficult situations and I do my best to keep it in perspective.
I wasn't too thrilled with my employment situation before all this happened, and when it hit along came mandatory overtime. It's a small amount compared to these healthcare workers doing double shifts in hellish conditions so I really shouldn't complain. For the next six weeks I'm receiving hazard pay.
I spend most of my free time doing yard work, hanging out in the garage, playing with my cars and drinking moonshine.
Re: Coronavirus - WTH is going on?
Posted: Tue Apr 28, 2020 6:31 am
by linthat22
I've been drinking more. Gonna have to curb that and force myself to exercise.
Re: Coronavirus - WTH is going on?
Posted: Tue Apr 28, 2020 8:00 am
by JiveTurkey
What Billy said; Zozo. These are definitely trying times on a mental level. Mojo sent!
DBN; glad to hear from you. It's been a bit and glad to hear you're still hanging in there. Stay safe!
Re: Coronavirus - WTH is going on?
Posted: Tue Apr 28, 2020 8:25 am
by nightflameauto
Dick Butter Nuts wrote:With the old broad working as a certified nursing assistant and me in social services/healthcare we're not spending any time together, aside from short visits in the driveway. I've certainly dealt with more difficult situations and I do my best to keep it in perspective.
I wasn't too thrilled with my employment situation before all this happened, and when it hit along came mandatory overtime. It's a small amount compared to these healthcare workers doing double shifts in hellish conditions so I really shouldn't complain. For the next six weeks I'm receiving hazard pay.
I spend most of my free time doing yard work, hanging out in the garage, playing with my cars and drinking moonshine.
I'm gonna tell her you slipped and forgot her proper name is the old hack.
Re: Coronavirus - WTH is going on?
Posted: Tue Apr 28, 2020 8:39 am
by ke2
Zozobra wrote:My mental health is taking a kicking. I've been battling chronic insomnia for decades and I had finally started to beat it using a very aggressive CBT programme. That has gone to shit and relapsing into not sleeping is seriously fucking my mood and outlook. I'm working from home so I still have some structure but a few weeks ago I had 6 days off over Easter weekend as it was a double bank holiday and work gave us an extra day each side of that too. I think those structureless 6 days are what fucked me. My gf lives with me and has been off work since before we went in to lockdown. The toll that's having on her is proving stressful on our relationship and between my low mood and her agitation things suck quite hard right now. I would definitely have have reacted worse to so little structure than she has to be fair to her so I know where she is coming from. It's hard to be reassuring when you have nothing in the tank. You can't pour from an empty cup. I wish I had the resilience and emotional labor in me but right now I don't. All in all it's a total clusterfuck.
I hear ya. My issue is worry. I'm too good at worrying. About the kids, the wife, the exes, my parents. The isolation isn't too bad here, because living in Norway, outside of a city, you can go out. I try to take a walk in the forest. This is basically the view from our house. But my optimism, that really wasn't there in the first place, wasn't too good in the early days of March. I started out on Valium, and have moved on to Cipralex (SSRI). I couldn't sleep or eat, and was more or less sick with worry. I'm not the most social person anyway. We mostly stay at home, and I eat my lunch alone by my desk, so the lack of other people really doesn't bother me too much. I'm an introvert anyway.
I hope you manage to see some light in the end of the tunnel. It's there, but it might be a fair bit ahead yet.
Re: Coronavirus - WTH is going on?
Posted: Tue Apr 28, 2020 8:43 am
by fretless
I'm completely disoriented , I'm losing my mind over how we in the U.S. are being "taken care of" by our so called leaders . I have zero trust in any of them . I've been watching my life savings bounce up and down and I feel like we have been robbed and taken advantage of . Thankfully I have a wonderful wife who is so level and easygoing it's crazy & no childrens here so we have a calm peaceful chill but Holy fuck . I have also almost totally disconnected from all media and even the internet . With the occasional popping in here to talk shit . I have had some tragic shit in my life and the one thing that has always been there for me is music . That little creative light and the axe in hand brings me back every time . The Goddess . Take care Dudes & play those fiddles .
Re: Coronavirus - WTH is going on?
Posted: Tue Apr 28, 2020 9:39 am
by VTM
nightflameauto wrote:Dick Butter Nuts wrote:With the old broad working as a certified nursing assistant and me in social services/healthcare we're not spending any time together, aside from short visits in the driveway. I've certainly dealt with more difficult situations and I do my best to keep it in perspective.
I wasn't too thrilled with my employment situation before all this happened, and when it hit along came mandatory overtime. It's a small amount compared to these healthcare workers doing double shifts in hellish conditions so I really shouldn't complain. For the next six weeks I'm receiving hazard pay.
I spend most of my free time doing yard work, hanging out in the garage, playing with my cars and drinking moonshine.
I'm gonna tell her you slipped and forgot her proper name is the old hack.
She wouldn't be too surprised. I've had more slips than a banana peel factory.
Re: Coronavirus - WTH is going on?
Posted: Tue Apr 28, 2020 9:40 am
by VTM
JiveTurkey wrote:What Billy said; Zozo. These are definitely trying times on a mental level. Mojo sent!
DBN; glad to hear from you. It's been a bit and glad to hear you're still hanging in there. Stay safe!
Thanks JT, hope all is well with you and your family.
Re: Coronavirus - WTH is going on?
Posted: Tue Apr 28, 2020 1:31 pm
by ajaxlepinski
Man, if I let my mind do what it wants, I'd either be in jail or the psych ward.
If I don't keep myself occupied I go nuts and it shows.
This is why I have several hobbies, read a lot and I try to exercise when ever I can.
When one activity gets played out, I have to switch to another. Trying to figure out how to keep the g/f happy is also an ongoing hobby that keeps me busy.
Because I've been going to work three days a week, I'm enjoying Tues, Fri, Sat & Sun at home and the pay cut isn't too bad... just can't save any money right now.
I predict: 1) the economy will be raging soon enough and 2) a vaccine will be produced ahead of schedule
Re: Coronavirus - WTH is going on?
Posted: Tue Apr 28, 2020 1:34 pm
by GuitarBilly
Re: Coronavirus - WTH is going on?
Posted: Tue Apr 28, 2020 1:41 pm
by nightflameauto
Re: Coronavirus - WTH is going on?
Posted: Tue Apr 28, 2020 1:57 pm
by BroSlinger
Re: Coronavirus - WTH is going on?
Posted: Tue Apr 28, 2020 2:03 pm
by nightflameauto
My very first thought seeing that was that it was something out of a comic book, but you'd expect the villain to use it to catch his prey.
We're living in a comic book. Or worse, a comic book movie.
Re: Coronavirus - WTH is going on?
Posted: Tue Apr 28, 2020 2:06 pm
by Zozobra
Thanks guys. I appreciate the kind words. Today has been a bit less shitty.
Live free or die!!! 