sleewell wrote:cool man, glad to hear it. i've always liked talking to you bc its never a i disagree with you so i insult you type of conversation.
yeah i am by nature very optimistic regarding the economy. tell me its terrible, tell me we are doomed but i am just going to continue to bust my ass to provide for my family. i work at least 60 hrs per week at my main gig (selling real estate and writing loans in this economy... oh my!!) and then put in significant hours working for myself on the side. i am a hustler by nature and have a fighter's type of attitude; i will not stop, ever. i get very frusterated when i see able bodied people with nice clothes and smart phones begging for money. that is not who i am and not what this country needs.
back to the issue i initially raised. its just disgusts me and i wish we were better than that as human beings treating each other. they put money over the well being of kids and that is inexusesable on so many levels. i know this has turned my uncle off catholocism and he was raised in the church and he went to notre dame. it would just seem impossible to continue to support, give money, trust and worship in that type of envirnonment. a few bad apples dont always ruin the entire harvest but that type of cover up really bothers me.
Sounds like we'd agree about a lot more than we'd disagree about, man. Seriously. Honestly, the only thing we might end up discussing might be the amount of poverty in this country that's caused by laziness vs. the amount caused by larger-scale social forces that tend to render even folks with the same work ethic as yours unable to support their families, even when they've basically done everything "right." That's what I see more of, truth to tell ... but don't get me started on that "entitlement" mentality. I see so much of that in my college freshmen, and it pretty much always results in rage on my part (which I usually have to stifle, for political reasons ~ speaking of what this country *doesn't* need!

As for the Church of Rome... well, I've been accused of being illogical before (right, Tony?

), but I feel, simultaneously, a great deal of empathy and pity for the average churchgoer who knew nothing of these atrocities until the scandals broke ~ who were egregiously betrayed by the church in which they'd placed their trust, not only for their lives but for their souls, as well ... and that same, unshakable sense of "this is absolutely unforgivable" that y'all have already posted. It's a real challenge for me as a Christian, myself ~ I'm even half Catholic, on my father's side! ~ what with the whole being called to forgive thing. Hell, I can actually muster up more empathy (not to say a whole lot, don't get me wrong) for the pedophiles themselves, who I really believe cannot control themselves (not saying it's okay ~ PLEASE don't read that wrong!!!) than I can for the leadership who moved them around and hushed it all up. They are every bit the monsters that those who actually physically violated the children are. IMO, of course.
That's all I'm sayin'. Know what I'm sayin'?
Peace,
C